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As a neurodevelopmental doctor with three decades of experience, I’ve seen firsthand how parents struggle with children who can’t focus, plan ahead, or stay motivated. The most important thing I want you to understand is this: executive function doesn’t just magically appear – it develops through specific stages from the very beginning of life.
In today’s episode, I explore the fascinating journey of how your child’s brain develops the ability to think, plan, and focus. So many parents ask me, “Why can’t my child just sit still and concentrate?” The answer lies in understanding their developmental blueprint.
Your child’s frontal lobe – the command center for executive function – depends on proper development in other areas first. Think of it like building a house; you need a solid foundation before adding the roof. When children experience challenges like restricted breathing patterns, chronic fight-or-flight responses, or digestive issues, it affects how their brain develops during critical windows of opportunity.
I explain how something as seemingly unrelated as a tongue tie can restrict oxygen flow to the brain, triggering sympathetic nervous system responses that redirect blood flow away from the frontal lobe. This is why addressing underlying physiological issues is crucial for cognitive development.
What fascinates me most is how everything connects. Your child’s ability to focus today reflects their developmental journey from conception through those critical early years. By understanding these connections, we can provide the right support at the right time.
Ready to learn more? Join my FREE webinar on May 14th at 7PM where I’ll dive deeper into practical strategies for supporting executive function development. Visit http://connectmybrain.com to register!
Remember, your child’s brain is beautifully designed to develop executive function – they just need the right blueprint to follow.
Topics covered in this episode:
- How executive function doesn’t just “pop in” but develops through specific stages from birth
- Why oxygen and breathing patterns impact brain development and focus
- The connection between fight-or-flight responses and frontal lobe function
- How developmental windows create the blueprint for brain organization
- The surprising link between tongue ties, ear infections, and cognitive challenges
Resources mentioned:
- Sign up for the free webinar on May 14th, 2025 at 7pm EST about executive function
- Schedule a virtual or in-person consultation
- Download the Connect My Brain app on Apple or Google Play (it’s free!)
- Learn more about Courses & Resources at Connect My Brain!
- Download Dr. Laura’s guide to Developmental Milestones
- Connect with Dr. Laura on Instagram and Facebook
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More about Connect My Brain:
Why is this happening to my kid and what can I do about it? If you are the parent of a developmentally delayed child then you’ve probably asked this question more than once. That’s where I come in! I’m Dr. Laura Hanson and I specialize in identifying the “why” and telling you the “what.” Join me every Thursday for a deeper look at how our brains are wired and how to get the most out of your mind. Are you looking to break negative patterns, overcome mood disorders, or optimize your potential? Maybe your child struggles with ADHD, OCD or other learning difficulties. Tune in to Connect My Brain, where I explain concepts like biofeedback and neurofeedback, brainwave frequencies, and much more. Let me help you change your life by changing your mind! Contact me HERE.
